Last week, he had me wait for him to go to town after work for some Christmas shopping. This may be normal for some husbands. Not mine. First of all, he works in the town where we were going to shop. It is about 30 miles for the round trip. He doesn’t help me Christmas shop. In thirty years, he hasn’t helped me shop much at all. He had the excuse for this time that he needed to bring the ice chest full of venison home rather than leave it in the back of the truck, and he thought he would help get something for our son-in-law. So, I met him at the house. To be very clear, his behavior was out of character.
As we rode to town, we talked about what we could get our daughter’s champion and where we wanted to eat supper. He said he had forgotten his uniforms at work. We made one stop at a clothing shop. Then, we went to the dealership where he is the service manager to get his uniforms. He went in and got his clothes. After he locked the door, he motioned for me to come around to the front of the building. I got out and walked around to look at whatever he wanted me to see.
He showed me a beautiful dark smoke gray Jeep. Big mud grips on 20s. Four doors with a big back seat for grandbabies. He asked me what I thought about the color. I told him I thought it was pretty. Better than the black I liked. He said, “You’d better think it is more than pretty. It’s yours.” He handed me the keys. I was stunned and cried. I still tear up at moments.
I asked him why he got it for me. What feelings were behind it? He simply said, “I just want you to have it.” That’s him. He feels deeply. He cries when he talks about our children and their children and our Lord. But, he doesn’t express his feelings directly with words easily.
Knowing him the way I know him, this is about the grandest show of love and affection ever. I can never repay with such an extravagant gift for him. I can only continue to do my best to take care of him in every way possible.
I did get a comment from him at some point about my never saying anything negative about his getting trucks or boats or cows or whatever he wants. I don’t. He is a grown man and makes his own money. He takes care of me and his family and contributes to the household expenses. What he does with the rest is none of my business. He is very successful in business. He doesn’t need me telling him what to do.
I expressed praise at church tonight. He was in another room. I work for the State of Texas. I have been working on an audit. I was a little concerned about locating some needed documents in the allotted time. He called me on his lunch break the other day. I told him my concerns. The rest of the day and into the next day, the audit prep smoothed out and everything has fallen into place in half the allotted time. I have no doubt he lifted up me and the situation with the audit in prayer. My praise is about his relationship with our Lord and his great faith and the positive effect their relationship has in my life.
Why is my Jeep called Sally? When he and I married at age eighteen, we had nothing. No job, no money, no car. Nothing but our love and devotion for each other and a certainty that we belong together. One person in the whole world believed we would make it. She believed we had that special something that would make our marriage last. We have lasted almost 33 years. We started dating 34 years ago next month. We still like each other. We still love each other. I would say she was right. She was my maternal grandmother, Sally. The Jeep is a symbol of our success. Our life, our marriage, our love. So, my Jeep is called Sally to remember that someone believed in us from the beginning.