I have such painfully simple ambitions.
Once upon a time, you could eat off my floors. Ceiling fans to baseboards, pantries and potties. All were kept immaculately clean and tidy. Even when I started working at the school, I had enough time and energy to keep up with things.
Between working a full-time 9-5 and reaching my 50s, I don’t keep up so well. We discussed the possibility of hiring some help for me. At least someone to do the ceiling fans and floors. I’m not sure how our puppy dog would feel about someone being in the house with us not here. So, that is on the back burner for now.
One thing I have noticed. The messes don’t bother me as much as they did when I was younger. I don’t think my standards have lowered. Rather, I have begun to have more compassion for myself. Historically, by this time, I would be having a nervous fit over the condition of some areas of the house. Don’t get me wrong, the house is not filthy. Things are not piled up everywhere. Still, things are not as pristine as I would like them to be.
A couple of my phrases from my life book are: über tidy and operating room clean. Some of my other catch phrases include words like immaculate and other such “perfection” words, it is easy to understand how I fall ridiculously short of my goals.
Yes, it is my intention to “put wash away warm”. My poor beloved knows how to dig socks from the hamper of clean clothes. I console myself by noting that the clothes are clean. I have heard of those having to dig in the dirty clothes for something to wear. Never at my house in all my years of housekeeping have any of them had to do that. Please forgive my boast. I need something today to reduce the level of guilt over my neglected floors and rugs.
So, my house is not looking the way I would prefer. My schedule is looking great. I have several events upcoming. Nearly every Saturday has some special something to occupy my time and energy. I will have a large quantity of memories scheduled for accumulating over the next several months. Memories with my church family, my nieces, cousins, aunts, daughter. Memories with him and our son and his bride and the Jewel of California arriving soon.
That accumulation more than offsets any anguish I might feel over the accumulation of dust bunnies in the corners. Über festive, immaculately pleasant, are those good phrases? Maybe I will adopt those to replace the more difficult ones.
Perfection is being in the presence of my family and friends, him, Him, and especially that Jewel on the way.